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Freundlichkeit

 

Caritas; Maler: Stanisław Wyspiański, 1895


 

Studienergebnis: Hilfsbereitschaft und Freundlichkeit pflanzt sich 1:3 weiter

Ich fand es sehr aufregend, zu sehen, dass sich Freundlichkeit auch auf Menschen überträgt, die man nicht kennt und nie zuvor getroffen hat. James H. Fowler (*1970) US-amerikanischer Sozialwissenschaftler, spezialisiert auf soziale Netzwerke, Kooperation, politische Beteiligung, und Genopolitik, Universität von Kalifornien, San Diego

 

Menschen müssen positive Eigenschaften wie Liebe und Freundlichkeit weitergeben, damit soziale Netze auf Dauer bestehen können. Sie bilden solche kooperativen Netzwerke, weil ihr Nutzen deutlich höher ist als der Aufwand für das hilfsbereite Verhalten. Nicholas A. Christakis (*1962) griechisch-amerikanischer Arzt, Soziologe, Harvard Medical School, Boston

Quelle: Artikel Hilfsbereitschaft steckt an, ddp/wissenschaft.de, Christine Amrhein, 9. März 2010

 


Each additional contribution a subject makes to the public good in the first period is tripled over the course of the experiment by other subjects who are directly or indirectly influenced to contribute more as a consequence. These results show experimentally that cooperative behavior cascades in human social networks.
- James H. Fowler, US American social scientist specializing in social networks, cooperation, political participation, and genopolitics, Nicholas A. Christakis (*1962) Greek American physician, sociologist, Harvard Medical School, Boston, Cooperative behavior cascades in human social networks, Political Science Department, University of California, San Diego, La Jolla, CA 92103, and Harvard Faculty of Arts and Sciences and Harvard Medical School, Boston, MA 021151, edited by Daniel Kahneman, Princeton University, Princeton, NJ, approved 25. January 2010, doi: 10.1073/pnas.0913149107, published by PNAS online before print 8. March 2010

 

Video interview and dialog with James H. Fowler, US American political and social scientist, on Research of happiness, obesity, drinking based on the Framingham Heart Study data, UC San Diego Faculty Club, sponsored by the video series Conversations with Tom, presented by hosts Tom Munnecke and Heather Wood, videographed by Robert Foxworth, 52:59 minutes duration, recorded 6. January 2009  
Evidence shows that social networks propagate happiness in a contagious fashion 7% to 9% more powerfully than unhappiness; the spread of loneliness, empathy research, centralized “smart center” networks vs. smart edges, group selection, the work of happiness and elevation by Jonathan Haidt, ways to construct networks of uplift

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Neun Tugenden des Geistes im 9. Buch des Neuen Testaments

Der Geist Gottes dagegen lässt als Frucht eine Fülle von Gutem wachsen, nämlich: Liebe, Freude und Frieden, Geduld, Freundlichkeit und Güte, Treue, Bescheidenheit und Selbstbeherrschung. Gegen all dies hat das Gesetz nichts einzuwenden. Galater 5, 22-23 (NT)

 

Liebt einander von Herzen als Brüder und Schwestern, und ehrt euch gegenseitig in zuvorkommender Weise. Römer 12, 10 (NT)

 

Wünscht denen, die euch verfolgen, Gutes. Segnet sie, anstatt sie zu verfluchen. Römer 12, 14 (NT)

 

Wenn euch jemand Unrecht tut, dann zahlt es niemals mit gleicher Münze heim. Seid darauf bedacht, vor den Augen aller Menschen bestehen zu können. Soweit es möglich ist und auf euch ankommt, lebt mit allen in Frieden. Römer 12, 17-18 (NT)

 

Persönliche Bekenntnisse

  • Ann Currie: Was ist das Beste, was Ihnen Ihre Mutter je beigebracht hat?
    Barack Obama: Einfühlungsvermögen. Sie hat dafür gesorgt, dass andere die Welt durch die Augen eines anderen sehen können, in den Schuhen von anderen stehen können. Ich denke, das ist die Grundlage für freundliches Entgegenkommen und Mitgefühl.   TV Interview Barack Obama, 44. US Präsident, präsentiert von NBC Sender Today Show, Gastgeberin Ann Curry (*1956) US-amerikanische Journalistin, 1. April 2008

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Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honor, preferring one another. Romans 12, 10 (NT) Lamsa Bible [LOC 880] translated by George Lamsa

 

Personal avowals

  • The other thing that is interesting, now that I'm looking back over many years, it is
    • the exquisite gentleness,
    • this peculiar combination of qualities,
    • this Infinite Presence which is all things, is everywhere, is both the space in the room and the objects in the room. It is both the figure and the ground, simultaneously. It is also exquisitely gentle. Its touch just melts away any 'you' with its exquisite presence. Whatever there was of the individual self is melted by it, dissolved by it.
There is no violence, it is like one just dissolves. It is like one is sugar and you put it in water – one just dissolves and becomes one with All That Is. Interview with Dr. David R. Hawkins, Dialogues on Consciousness and Spirituality, part 2, pg. 23, spiral binding, Veritas Publishing, Sedona, AZ, around 1998

 

  • I don't have a ‘religion.' My religion is kindness. H.H. 14th Dalai Lama Tenzin Gyatso [LoC 570] (*1935) Tibetan monk, leader of the Gelug or "Yellow Hat" branch of Tibetan Buddhism, Peace Nobel Prize laureate, 1989, his famous reply when asked about the Gretchen question

 

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Building a Culture of Empathy and Compassion Obama Empathy Speech Index

  • Ann Currie: Best thing your mom ever taught you?
    Barack Obama: Empathy. Making sure that you can see the world through somebody else's eyes, stand in their shoes. I think that's the basis for kindness and compassion. TV interview Barack Obama (*1961) 44th US president, presented by NBC station, Today Show, host (*1956) US American television news journalist, co-anchor, NBC, 1. April 2008
  • When power becomes gracious and descends into the visible — such descent I call beauty. And there is nobody from whom I want beauty as much as from you who are powerful: let your kindness be your final self-conquest. Zarathustra (Zoroaster) [LoC 1000/860] (18-6th century BC) Iranian Persian prophet, philosopher, founder of Zoroastrianism

 

  • Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless. Mother Teresa of Calcutta [LoC 710] (1910-1997) Albanian-born Indian Catholic nun, saint, missionary, humanitarian, founder of the Order of the Missionaries of Charity, Nobel Prize for Peace laureate, 1979

 

  • At the most fundamental level our nature is compassionate, and that cooperation, not conflict, lies at the heart of the basic principles that govern our human existence. H.H. 14th Dalai Lama Tenzin Gyatso [LoC 570] (*1935) Tibetan monk, leader of the Gelug or "Yellow Hat" branch of Tibetan Buddhism, Peace Nobel Prize laureate, 1989
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  • The simple recognition that everyone else wants to be happy and not to suffer, just as I do, serves as a constant reminder against selfishness and partiality. It reminds us there is little to be gained from being kind and generous while hoping to win something in return. Actions motivated by a desire to earn a good name for ourselves are still selfish, even if they appear to be acts of kindness. H.H. 14th Dalai Lama Tenzin Gyatso [LoC 570] (*1935) Tibetan monk, leader of the Gelug or "Yellow Hat" branch of Tibetan Buddhism, Peace Nobel Prize laureate, 1989, Facebook comment, 22. August 2010

 

  • To be kind, honest and have positive thoughts; to forgive those who harm us and treat everyone as a friend; to help those who are suffering and never to consider ourselves superior to anyone else: even if this advice seems rather simplistic, make the effort of seeing whether by following it you can find greater happiness. H.H. 14th Dalai Lama Tenzin Gyatso [LoC 570] (*1935) Tibetan monk, leader of the Gelug or "Yellow Hat" branch of Tibetan Buddhism, Peace Nobel Prize laureate, 1989, Facebook comment, 23. September 2010

 

  • Softer than the flower where kindness is concerned;
    stronger than the thunder where principles are at stake.
    Paramahansa Yogananda [LoC 540] (1893-1952) Bengalian Indian Hindu sage, yogi, philosopher, author

 

  • The very emphasis of the commandment “Thou shalt not kill” makes it certain that we are descended from an endlessly long chain of generations of murderers, whose love of murder was in their blood as it is perhaps also in ours. Sigmund Freud [LoC 499] (1856-1939) Austrian neurologist, deep psychologist, founder of psychoanalysis, critic of religion

 

  • We can't separate ourselves from one another. We are all part of a vast sea of love, one indivisible divine mind. Marianne Williamson (*1952) US American spiritual leader, author, lecturer

 

  • Quote from ACIM1: "This is what is meant by 'the meek shall inherit the earth.' They will literally take it over because of their strength."
    Gentleness – not brute force – is the power that ultimately will triumph. When we are tough, do we get our needs met? Or is it when we are kinder that we get our needs met? The ego says attack ... will get us somewhere, but the Spirit knows better. Only love produces miracles. Marianne Williamson (*1952) US American spiritual leader, author, lecturer, facebook entry, 15. January 2011

 

 

  • The emotions that promote the meaningful life are organized to an interest in the welfare of others.  Compassion shifts the mind in ways that increase the likelihood of taking pleasure in the improved welfare of others. Awe shifts the very contents of our self-definition, away from the emphasis of personal desires and preferences and toward that which connects us to others. Neurochemicals (oxytocin) and regions of the nervous system related to these emotions promote trust and long-term devotion. We have been designed to care about things other than the gratification of desire and the maximizing of self-interest. Dacher Keltner, US American professor of psychology, UC Berkeley, director of the Greater Good Science Center, Born to Be Good. The Science of a Meaningful Life, W.W. Norton & Co., 12. January 2009

 

 

  • Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. Plato [LoC 485] (427-347 BC) Ancient Greek pre-Christian philosopher

 

  • Kindness is the golden chain by which society is bound together. Johann Wolfgang Goethe [LoC 465] (1749-1832) German poet, dramatist, novelist, polymath, playwright

 

 

  • Kindness extended, received or observed beneficially impacts the physical health and feelings of everyone involved. Dr. Wayne Dyer [LoC 450] (*1940) US American self-help advocate, spiritual lecturer, author, Facebook entry, 25. January 2011

 

  • The only way to tell the truth is to speak with kindness. Only the words of a loving man can be heard. Henry David Thoreau (1817-1862) US American author, poet, historian, philosopher, leading transcendentalist, abolitionist, naturalist, tax resister, development critic, surveyor

 

  • Be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a great battle. Philo (20 BC-41 AD) [Philo of Alexandria, "Philon", Philo the Jew]] Egyptian Hellenistic Jewish Biblical philosopher, member of the Therapeutae sect

 

  • Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see. Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (1835-1910) US American author, humorist

 

  • The great secret of morals is love, or a going out of our nature, and the identification of ourselves with the beautiful which exists in thought, action, or person, not our own. Percy Bysshe Shelley (1792-1822) major English Romantic lyric poet

 

  • The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention. Oscar Wilde (1854-1900) Irish dramatist, novelist, poet

 

  • We are wired to be super-kind. Lynne Isbell, Ph.D., US American professor of anthropology, UC Davis

 

  • Treat everyone you meet as if he or she were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness, and understanding you can muster, and do so with no thought of reward. Your life will never be the same. Augustine "Og" Mandino II (1923-1996) US American bestseller author of The Greatest Salesman in the World, recovering alcoholic

 

  • Kindness is in our power, even when fondness is not. Samuel Johnson (1709-1784) English author, poet, essayist, moralist, literary critic, biographer, editor, lexicographer

 

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Kindness enhancing effect of drugs

  • With MDMA [active ingredient in the drug ecstasy], you not only see your fear but trust yourself to go past it. It shows you how to be kinder to yourself, and how much you're capable of. It allows you access to a place in your mind that's compassionate and full of love. You might have abandoned that place, but it never abandoned you. Marcela Ot'alora, 52, USAmerican therapist, Colorado, who took MDMA under a psychologist's care in 1984 to treat PTSD stemming from an abusive relationship PTSD and MDMA Therapy – Medical Uses of Ecstasy, presented by O, The Oprah Magazine, Jessica Winter, 15. February 2011

 

  • Evolution has bequeathed humans with a sense of empathy – an ability to treat other people’s interest as comparable to one’s own. Unfortunately, by default we apply it only to a very narrow circle of friends and family. People outside that circle were treated as subhuman and can be exploited with impunity. But over history the circle has been expanded. […] from village to the clan to the tribe to the nation to other races to other sexes […] and other species. Peter Singer, Ph.D. [LoC 195] (*1946) Australian philosopher, Ira W. DeCamp professor of bioethics, Princeton University

 

  • When power becomes gracious and descends into the visible — such descent I call beauty. And there is nobody from whom I want beauty as much as from you who are powerful: let your kindness be your final self-conquest. Of all evil I deem you capable: therefore I want the good from you. Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws. Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche (1844-1900) German classical scholar, critic of culture, philosopher of nihilism [LoC 120], Thus Spoke Zarathustra [Also sprach Zarathustra], part II, chapter 13, "Those Who Are Sublime", 1885
  • Sympathy is "weak and blind" (subjective and therefore unreliable). [Paraphrased.] Immanuel Kant [LoC 460] (1724-1804) German philosopher at the end of the 18th Century Enlightenment

 

Negative statements – purporting self-interest and low values
State of war of every man against every man

  • The life of man, solitary, poor, nasty, brutish, and short. Thomas Hobbes (1588-1679) English political philosopher on the social contract theory, Leviathan, chapter XIII, "Of the Natural Condition of Mankind, as concerning their Felicity, and Misery", 1651

 

  • If any civilization is to survive, it is the morality of altruism that men have to reject. Ayn Rand [LoC 400] (1905-1982) Russian-American novelist, philosopher, playwright, screenwriter, Faith and Force. The Destroyers of the Modern World, lecture, Yale University, 17. February 1960, published as a pamphlet, Nathaniel Branden Institute, 1967, later in Philosophy: Who Needs It

 

  • Objectivist ethics, in essence, hold that man exists for his own sake, that the pursuit of his own happiness is his highest moral purpose, that he must not sacrifice himself to others, nor sacrifice others to himself. Ayn Rand [LoC 400] (1905-1982) Russian-American novelist, philosopher, playwright, screenwriter, Atlas Shrugged, 1957

 

  • Of mankind we may say in general they are fickle, hypocritical, and greedy of gain. Niccolò Machiavelli (1469-1527) Italian diplomat, historian, humanist, political philosopher, writer, founder of modern political science

 

  • The natural world is "grossly immoral." […] Natural selection can honestly be described as a process for maximizing short-sighted selfishness. George Christopher Williams (*1926) US American professor of evolutionary biology

Zitate (engl.) von David R. Hawkins

  • Be kind and loving to all living creatures at all times and in all their expressions – without exception, no matter what. Dr. David R. Hawkins, source unknown

 

  • Simple kindness to one's self and all that lives, is the most powerful transformational force of all. It produces no backlash and no downside, and never leads to loss or despair. It increases one's own true power without exacting any toll. But to reach maximum power such kindness can permit no exceptions, nor can it be practiced with the expectation of some selfish reward. And its effect is as far reaching as it is subtle. Dr. David R. Hawkins, Power vs. Force, S. ?

 

  • All society is subliminally and subtly influenced by every kind and loving thought, word, or deed. Every forgiveness is a benefit to everyone. The universe notes and records every action and returns it in kind. Karma is actually the very nature of the universe because of the innate structure and function of the universe itself. In the universe time is measured in eons. Beyond that, it does not even exist at all. Every kindness is therefore forever. Dr. David R. Hawkins, The Eye of the I. From Which Nothing Is Hidden, chapter 13 Explanations, S. 268, revised edition, 2002

 

  • To be as loving as you can be towards all of life and all of its expressions ... I mean that is enough for a lifetime. Okay. That'll keep you busy for a lifetime. Even to those that don’t deserve it! [Laugther.] Prescott Seminar Overcoming Doubt, Skepticism and Disbelief, 3 DVD set, 9. August 2008

Englische Texte – English section on Kindness

People of JEN – Jen Science – Dacher Keltner

  • Jen is the central idea in the teachings of Confucius, and refers to a complex mixture of kindness, humanity, and respect that transpires between people. A person of Jen brings the good things of others to completion and does not bring the bad things of others to completion. Jen is felt in that deeply satisfying moment when you bring out the goodness in others. Dacher Keltner, US American professor of psychology, Berkeley, Born to Be Good. The Science of a Meaningful Life, W.W. Norton & Co., 12. January 2009

 

  • A person of jen, Confucius observes, “wishing to establish his own character, also establishes the character of others.” A person of jen “brings the good things of others to completion and does not bring the bad things of others to completion.” Jen is felt in that deeply satisfying moment when you bring out the goodness in others. Dacher Keltner, US American professor of psychology, Berkeley, Born to Be Good. The Science of a Meaningful Life, W.W. Norton & Co., 12. January 2009
    Born to Be Good, NYT, pg. 1 of 6, 18. January 2009

 

  • Jen science […] is founded on the study of emotions such as compassion, gratitude, awe, embarrassment, and amusement, emotions that transpire between people, bringing the good in each other to completion. Dacher Keltner, US American professor of psychology, Berkeley, Born to Be Good. The Science of a Meaningful Life, W.W. Norton & Co., 12. January 2009
    Born to Be Good, NYT, pg. 1 of 6, 18. January 2009

Forbidden fruits

 

Why Wine Is Forbidden
When the Prophet's ray of intelligence
struck the dim-witted man he was with,
the man got very happy, and talkative.
Soon he began unmannerly raving.
This is the problem with a selflessness
that comes quickly, as with wine.
If the wine drinker
has a deep gentleness in him,
he will show that, when drunk.
But if he has hidden anger and arrogance,
those appear,
and since most people do,
wine is forbidden to everyone.

Jalal ad-Din Muḥammad Rumi [LoC 550] (1207-1273)
Persian Muslim poet, Sufi mystic, jurist, theologian

 

 

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  • Video interview and dialog with James H. Fowler, US American political and social scientist, Research of happiness, obesity, drinking based on the Framingham Heart Study data, UC San Diego Faculty Club, sponsored by the video series Conversations with Tom, presented by hosts Tom Munnecke and Heather Wood, videographed by Robert Foxworth, 52:59 minutes duration, taped 6. January 2009  
    Evidence shows that social networks propagate happiness in a contagious fashion, 7% to 9% more powerfully than unhappiness; the spread of loneliness, empathy research, centralized “smart center” networks vs. smart edges, group selection, the work of happiness and elevation by Jonathan Haidt, ways to construct networks of uplift
  • Video interview with Peter Russell, British author, revolutionary futurist, eco-philosopher, Be Kind – If you can't say something nice... hold on, presented by Conscious Media Network, host Regina Meredith, 26:08 minutes duration, posted July 2005
  • Video animaton Random Acts of Kindness, Enya, quotes on friendliness, YouTube film, 4:30 minutes duration, posted 18. May 2009

Audio- und Videolinks (engl.) – Dacher Keltner, Ph.D., Greater Good Science Center

 

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1 Dr. Helen Schucman, A Course in Miracles